Destination Cape Town, 80 Years Later
It’s always a strange feeling, filling the last few days before a long trip, a kind of void which gets filled with things that don’t really need to be done, and some that definitely do. A kind of hiatus where there’s a heap of tasks which wait to be done but can’t yet be tackled. We fly out on July 15th; friends and family are all but seen, places visited, jobs completed, boxes ticked. It will be on us like an avalanche soon, but for now, a timeless vacuum regularly taps our shoulder with a bony hand.
There’s been a bit of a medical issue, not, as it turns out, overly serious, but one which causes pain and restricts walking. It hurts to walk any distance, a real bummer for both of us, but particularly me, and something which may become an unwanted theme of this next trip. Fingers are, as ever, crossed, and the Micawber in us believes that it’ll all be fine. Maybe I should try and remember that I’m not a kid any more, even though my mind insists that I am. I sound like my Dad.
Let’s see what needs doing outside.
Raindrops glisten, hanging from twigs and branches like miniature lightbulbs, somehow capturing light from an invisible sun. An improbable multitude of snails cling to those same branches, snails of all sizes from swirled pimples to creatures plump enough to serve with garlic butter. The closer you look, the more of the little devils you see.
I pull strands of wild strawberry from the clumps of aubretia and alyssum for what seems the umpteenth time in the last fortnight and a familiar unpleasant smell hits my nostrils: that bloody tailless black cat has been dumping its stinking waste in my garden again. Summer persists with its stubborn refusal to get going, teasing with a few warm days at the end of June before heralding July with more grey skies and chilly days. And rain. Slow drizzle, fast drizzle, drifting hazy moisture punctuated by the occasional proper downpour. As dreary non-starter summers go, this one is chasing an Oscar nomination.
Driven indoors by more of the same, I gather up paperwork, an iPad and a calculator and set about paying bills and putting affairs in order. “Putting affairs in order” – sounds like an explorer heading into the unknown or a rich kid off on the Grand Tour. Halfway across the room I drop the biro which somersaults and cartwheels across the room solely to find the most awkward spot from which to retrieve it. I stoop to pick it up, yet somehow the body does that inflexible thing that only happens beyond a certain age and I miss the damned thing at the first attempt. Cursing, I bend over again – and realise that on both occasions I’ve inadvertently let out a kind of grunt, as if the body will only bend if it’s given an animalistic soundtrack. I swear at the pen. Like that’s gonna help. I sound like my Dad.
Bills paid, departure date given to people who need to know it, we run through the travel list. Again. Flights booked. Check. Kenya entry forms obtained. Check. Safari booked and deposit paid. Check. Kenya rail tickets sorted. Check. Still need to get American dollars and Kenyan foofoos. That can wait till next week, no sense in having bundles of cash in the house unnecessarily. We’ve done this list over and over yet we keep being drawn back to it.
Red pins are in the map on the wall, red means next trip, white means we’ve been there, done that, probably got several T shirts. The trail of red pins leads north and east from Nairobi, zigzagging then through six more countries before coming to rest near the bottom of the continent, close to those words which sound just a little bit magical…..Cape Town.
“Don’t wait to be called up, Stan” said Ken to his younger brother, “Hitler ain’t gonna be stopped for a while yet. Go and volunteer for the Navy, Stan, otherwise some bellicose bastard will send you to the front line and before you know it your name’s inserted into a ‘lost in action’ letter from the War Office to Mum and Dad”.
“The Navy? Why the Navy?”
“Isn’t it obvious? Sail the seas, see far off lands, get fed decent grub every single day – better food than you get here at home – and put a few thousand miles between yourself and Jerry. Better to be on the ocean than six feet under the ground when Hitler’s day of reckoning comes, believe you me”.
Stan looked up at his older brother with respect, maybe a dash of awe. And volunteered for the Navy.
Within weeks the young scrawny lad from Derby was on the other side of the world, a signalman, or “bunting tosser” as they were affectionately known, on board HMS Glasgow, rolling over the waves and, just as Ken had predicted, enjoying meals more wholesome and filling than he had ever enjoyed back in St Giles’s Road.
Stan’s first experience of shore leave, his first taste of freedom in a foreign land, found him gazing in disbelief at where he was. No longer killing time in downtown Derby or diving into air raid shelters when the sirens sounded, instead pinching himself that this ordinary skinny teenager who had never before left the UK, was now walking through the streets of an unfamiliar land, chatting with people who spoke a twisted form of English and, most unbelievable of all, looking up at the stunning, breathtaking sight of Table Mountain.
Stanley was, of course, my father. Over the years, and particularly in his later years, he would speak at length of the sense of wonder in his 18-year-old self in 1944, unfathomably finding himself plucked from the terraced streets of his home town and teleported to the enchanting, mysterious world which was Cape Town. The look in my Dad’s eye as he talked, losing himself in those distant yet crystal clear memories, with a wonderment still there 70 years on, left such an impression.
And so it is majorly fitting that we will be ending our next adventure in that same place, studying with a similar awe the sights of Cape Town, gazing up at Table Mountain, just as my teenaged father did exactly 80 years ago.
I wish he was here to know that I am going to somewhere which was for him a lifelong memory. If he was, he’d probably be asking me to see if that lovely girl he met on shore leave is still there…
45 Comments
Monkey's Tale
How nice to have that connection with your dad for part of your journey. Fitting that you are grunting and groaning like him now too 😊 Maggie
Phil & Michaela
Happens to the best of us!
Monkey's Tale
Stay healthy on your trip 🙂
Heyjude
I shall never forget my first sight of Table Mountain. 50 years ago. I hope the health issues don’t cause any problems. Maybe take the cable car to the top.
Phil & Michaela
So looking forward to that moment, Jude, although it’s a few months off yet, it’ll be a great finale.
Heyjude
I’m sure you will have lots of adventures on the way. And if you want a cheap safari experience then book a few days in Addo, eastern Cape. And DO NOT miss out on Franschoek for food and wine experiences!
Phil & Michaela
Those are going straight on my list – thank you Jude!
Heyjude
Have you read Corna’s posts about Addo?
Phil & Michaela
I probably have but I’ll make another visit
Lynette d'Arty-Cross
As Jude said, I shall never forget my first sight of Table Mountain. I liked Cape Town a lot. I understand completely about bending over and discovering (once more) that things still don’t work the way they used to! I hope your health problem doesn’t interfere much with your travels.
Phil & Michaela
Thank you, we are so looking forward to this…!
Annie Berger
I hope the next week plus will help with the walking issues you’re experiencing, Phil, and that you won’t have any or at least just minimal concerns in Africa. Do you both get medical evacuation insurance in the one in a million chance you might need it? It certainly saved our hides when we needed it in Guatemala when I slipped and broke my femur. Money well worth spent in my mind!
Phil & Michaela
Yes, we’re covered in that respect, Annie. And very much looking forward to this next adventure.
Miriam
I can feel and understand the sense of excitement through your words. Capetown will be amazing. And having that special connection and nostalgia of your father’s past makes it even more poignant. It will be here soon enough and then you’ll be off adventuring and regaling us with tales. Take care and hopefully by the time you leave you’ll feel a bit more like your 20yo self!
Phil & Michaela
Ha ha maybe! On our way soon….
Terrie
Lovely writing which is becoming better and better. I am in Oxford at a food symposium returning the day you leave. Dinner partner last night from Ghana. Best to you both big hugs and be safe. Terrie
Phil & Michaela
Hi Terrie, thank you…enjoy the dreaming spires…
Toonsarah
As you know, I’m really excited to be following you virtually on this next trip, both to the places I’ve been myself in the past and those we’re yet to visit (but really want to!) I loved the story of your father arriving in Cape Town, and it reminded me of the recent Royal Navy adverts – ‘I was born in Blyth but made in the Royal Navy’! I hope your walking difficulties don’t cause too many problems but I know from my own experience that if you’re restricted from some activities other opportunities present themselves – I could point to a number of sights I would never have seen had I been better able to walk somewhere else 😀
Phil & Michaela
Yes that’s the kind of positive outlook we need, this time, I think. I’m just hoping it gets a lot easier than it currently is.
Toonsarah
Fingers crossed 🤞
WanderingCanadians
Safe travels. Sorry to hear about your medical issue that’s restricted your walking. I’m sure you’ll still manage to have an awesome time!
Phil & Michaela
Thank you….we’ll be doing our damnedest!
Helen Devries
I hope the walking situation is resolved…but no doubt you weill be carrying on . Looking forward to the trains…
Phil & Michaela
Oh me too!
Lookoom
It’s going to be a long way to Cape Town, but having such a goal coupled with such memories gives you energy for the hard times. What wonderful discoveries you will make in these countries, full of colour and overflowing with nature. I can’t wait to read about it and travel by proxy.
Phil & Michaela
Thank you , we are ready looking forward to it now…
Travels Through My Lens
I hope you’re well enough to enjoy your trip. Take care and safe travels.
Phil & Michaela
Thank you…hopefully we won’t have to retitle the posts “Limping Through Africa” 😂
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grandmisadventures
What a special moment to be in Cape Town following in your dad’s footsteps. I would imagine that he will be there with you in spirit as you experience that place that first took him so far from home. I hope that the pain lessens and doesn’t in any way inhibit such a great journey 🙂
Phil & Michaela
We are very excited now Meg, this trip is going to be very different!
Alison
Lovely narrative between your dad and his brother, will make the trip all the more special. Hopefully your feet issues will resolve soon, Anthony is also in immense pain with his ankle but won’t do anything about it! Have you got all your accommodation booked or do you book as you go in case you want to stay longer in one place?
Phil & Michaela
It isn’t my feet, it’s hip and groin and I’m fed up of it!! I’ve seen your next message already so I know you know the answer to your question now. 😄
Alison
Oh, perhaps bursitis, hips are a problem. We changed our mattress a while ago and my hip pain cleared up in two weeks. I suffered for a year and had two injections and loads of physio, which didn’t help a bit.
Phil & Michaela
Spot on, Ali. Arthritis developing and a bursitis to add to the pain and discomfort. You a Doctor or something? 😂😂
Alison
🤣 you sound like my son so funny. He always asks what uni I went to as I’m always giving advice. Rest is best and no massages.
Image Earth Travel
What amazing lovely memories you’re taking to a destination and hope you get better fast as there’s a lot of walking to do in Capetown! 😉
Phil & Michaela
Hoping so too!
wetanddustyroads
Guess what? We will be flying to Cape Town this coming Saturday to visit our home (and my mother) on the West Coast for two weeks. Over the past few days, Cape Town has suffered from severe winter storms … but hopefully by the time you get there, it’s all going to be sunny and lovely. I hope Table Mountain (and Cape Town) will make as lasting an impression on you as it did on your father.
Phil & Michaela
Enjoy your time back there, Corna! Yes it’s a long time till we’re there so of course it’ll be a different season altogether, late spring/early summer by then. Looking forward to the whole trip but Cape Town to finish is a great thought.
wetanddustyroads
We are also very much looking forward to your entire trip! Think it’s going to be awesome – you guys know how to make a journey a whole lot of fun!
leightontravels
And so you are on the eve of yet another trip. Glad to hear that the unfortunate medical situation has not stopped the trip altogether, I’m sure that you will do everything you can to strike a balance between experiencing it to the full and building your full strength back up. I’m sure it’ll be an emotional moment when you get to Cape Town and stroll down the harbour.
Phil & Michaela
So looking forward to this, Leighton – potentially our most challenging trip yet. And before then, the excitement of what’s going on in Berlin tonight. Come on boys, this is The One!!
leightontravels
It’s been a strange tournament from us but yes, this is it!
Cyber Brust
Great post! I really enjoyed reading it.